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s/he tightens up on h/, increases control over h/
s/he controls h/, orders h/ around, tells h/ what to do and what not to do, henpecks h/
s/he controls it
s/he stops self from doing something; s/he forbears, controls self
s/he speaks for it; s/he is spokesperson for it
s/he attaches handle to h/ (e.g., cup, bucket); s/he controls h/ (person)
s/he attaches handle to it; s/he controls it